Don’t Let a Miss Define You. Even the Best Players Miss Goals
At Mexico 70, Pele was at his best, but he infamously missed a goal after literarily dribbling and undressing the keeper during the semi-final match against Uruguay. Roberto Baggio still remains one of Italy's best players, but during USA 94, he missed the very last penalty during the final...
Money Reveals Your True Character
I once had a driver who had a big ego. Many usually thought he was the owner of the car because I sit in front, on the passenger's seat. You'll never catch me sitting at the 'owner's corner'—a habit I picked up during my Standard Trust Bank days. Many times, we've had policemen stop us, and they...
10 Ways to Maximize the Power of Words and Thoughts for Your Advancement in Life and Career
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver. (Proverbs 25:11) What you say and how you say it will have far-reaching implications for your professional or business advancement. Your words have the power to lift you high or set you back. Some people attribute their problem to...
The Leadership Template of Jesus
On my way to work on June 29, 2021, I reflected on how Jesus chose his 12 disciples. Knowing full well He had an uncommon assignment which also depended to a very large extent on the team He chose, I believe so much went into choosing that first team. He had to carefully lay the foundation because...
Maximize Your Limited Time to Achieve Your Goals
You won't have all the time in the world to do everything you want to do. I met a colleague on a beautiful Friday morning in February 2022 and in the course of our conversation, he reminded me of something I told him a few years earlier. At that time, he had wondered aloud how I was able to cope...
Bruce Lee: Lessons on Discipline and Clarity of Purpose from a Childhood Hero
One of the best movies I saw during my childhood was Fists of Fury starring Bruce Lee. That was circa 1985 and my dad had just bought a Video Cassette Recorder. I recall that he was the first to buy one in our neighbourhood and we used to have many people visit to watch movies on video cassettes....
How Acting on a Stupid Idea Can Create Your Biggest Breakthrough
Whatever you see around you started in someone's mind as an idea. Every product or service started as an idea. One idea that is well thought out and clinically executed can guarantee your breakthrough. That's the breakthrough idea. Four guys sat outside a gate at a time of national crisis. Things...
How My Wife Changed My Personal Finance Habits
‘The goal in marriage is not to think alike but to think together’ — Robert C. Dodds Before I got married, I could buy tomorrow on credit. As a young banker then, there were many temptations to live large. I had access to credit facilities by virtue of where I worked. Many peddlers of...
God Is Not through with You Yet
I love the Bible. It's a very real, practical and down-to-earth book. Very relatable. It doesn't gloss over the characters' foibles. It shows us that the characters struggle just like we do. Sarah's jealousy was never hidden. She was a very strong character who was overbearing and a nag. If you're...
Do You Want to Attract Help? Demonstrate Your Capacity to Maximise It
On my way from church on October 22, 2023, I observed a man from whom I always bought newspapers every Sunday in Lagos some years back. I always saw him at a particular traffic point and he knew the newspaper I preferred. I continued to patronise him even when I had read all the news online. I...